Category: Happiness
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You Always know you just dont listen

Its not deep down its smacking you in your face. As I have learned to listen more to my friends and loved ones the most constant thing I hear is “I knew” or “I knew deep down” I rarely hear “I should have known.” Actually I can probably count on one hand in my whole…
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What triggers you? what triggers them? Duh

I recently had a fabulous experience. I was able to get past something that has happened countless times in my life. I used David Ellzey’s very special blend of his techniques evolved from the Sedona method. I have studied with him for years, and it really is magically effective for deep seated, life long triggers…
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Love Upside Down More to Consider

I wrote a lot of “love” in three different posts. But I still had thoughts popping into my head to turn this thing right side up. Consider presence vs presents. With the best of intentions; Teaching and Sharing vs listening and learning “Giving” to someone vs “Getting” (ie understanding) someone ( you do get it…
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Everything you do and think is wrong

In fact in many cases its the exact opposite of what you think. I am not even kidding. You don’t “get” love, you “give” love. Ask any mother what was the best time of her life? Many will recall, with far away look in their eyes, how happy they were when you were little. Or…
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Love

This is going to be really bold and perhaps inexplicable, but maybe not. Plus everyone’s life experiences are different. And I expect this will evolve for me as well. But I had an extraordinary almost out of body experience that seems to be touching a lot of things in my life. Disclaimer Check with your…
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What is your steaming pile of shit?

The point is everyone’s pile of shit is different. I learned this talking to a friend who needed to clean their closet. I know guys that will absolutely lose their shit if they havent gotten their car cleaned. I know my desk can be an issue. Do what you have to do, or clear your…
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Chat GPT Same Question

Write about whether humans are capable of thinking or are we just repeating memories ChatGPT The question of whether humans are capable of thinking or if we are merely repeating memories is a complex and debated topic in the fields of psychology, neuroscience, and philosophy. While there is no definitive answer, a closer examination reveals…
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Are We Thinking or just vomiting memories?

I recently read that there is no thinking we are just accessing memories. OK I am not a doctor or a psychologist, but I am a thinking human being. Ha Ha! You are right I just discredited my whole theory in my opening sentence. Or am I just reorganizing my memories? My goal is to…
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Part Three of our Survival Programming

I previously wrote about sugar and fat and all the ways we are wired or have evolved to survive that today are sabotaging us. But stress is so important that it deserves a post onto itself. This fight of flight mechanism is also hard wired into our very survival. A cascade of hormones are released…
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Grog is ruining your life by making all of your bad choices.

I have said this before but its worth repeating as many times as it takes in as many ways for you to learn the core of pretty much all of your problems. Overeating, eating too many sweets, making the wrong choices in relationships, getting lost on your i phone i pad in or your favorite…
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What is Happiness?

It is becoming increasingly clear to me what happiness is and what happiness isn’t. Fortunately or unfortunately, I have all the perspectives. I remember arriving home to my apartment on the 33rd floor in NYC on 59th st close enough to the river that from my bedroom or even bathroom I could see the Brooklyn…
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More on my #1 Tip

Human beings operate exactly opposite to computers. A computer saves the “program” when everything is running perfectly. A human saves the worst memories. Thats great so you dont keep sticking your hand in fire, but what other results does that produce. Lets give an example by going back to a mythical female (that none of…
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You can fix Stupid You cant fix rude

I was just answering a question on Quora. A girl said her boyfriend checks out other girls in front of her and says he wants to get with them. Anyone that disrespectful rude or perhaps desiring to manipulate is the kind of person she should have dumped yesterday. Think about what goes on in his…
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MEN ARE CATS AND WOMEN ARE DOGS

Or is it vice versa ? How to make any relationship work Introduction If I tell you that men and women are from different planets, that is a cop out and an excuse for not communicating. Or a recipe for giving up, because why would people from different planets ever get along. However if I…
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The First 10 Pages of My book

Hormones My Day in the mind of a woman True Story overdosed on Estrogen For Women Only STOP ANALYZING AND START LIVING Married Men Horror stories Clare ( not her real name) Why no one will marry you Why you’re single for WOMEN and MEN By Aman Hoonose I have wanted to share this…