“We All Have the Same Amount of Hours in a Day” – FALSE

That old cliché? It’s not only outdated—it’s misleading.

What if…
By learning shortcuts, working with coaches, surrounding yourself with those who’ve already found the roadmaps through your challenge…
By learning the secrets, the multipliers
By upgrading your systems for self-discipline and accountability…

What if you could double, triple, or even 10X your effectiveness?

Wouldn’t that, for all practical purposes, mean you now have twice—or ten times—the time?

Because it’s not just about hours. It’s about effectiveness per hour.

This morning, I was having a conversation with my beautiful partner, Marjah Simons—author of Fire Focus and a powerhouse who also runs a mastermind group. I shared my observation from my two industries—printing and aesthetics—how both rely on consumables. And then it hit me…

Isn’t time the ultimate consumable?

Once spent, you don’t get it back. But unlike paper or syringes or medical supplies, you can actually multiply time… by using it better, smarter, more intentionally. (Honestly, the “time is a consumable” idea might deserve its own post.)

But this post is about something else: speed.

You can turtle your way through life, or you can strap into the rocket powered by your influence group.

And here’s the beautiful part:
You don’t have to settle for the five people closest to you by geography.
Your tribe, your rocket ship, your growth crew? They can live across the country or the globe.

For the past year, I’ve been literally “masterminding” with some of the most extraordinary people—many of whom I’ve never even met in person. And yet, we meet every day. We share insights, challenge each other, hold each other accountable, and fine-tune our lives, health, and businesses by finding those tiny distinctions that create massive shifts.

You don’t have to walk anymore.

And if you’re still walking—truthfully—you’ll probably never get there.

Instead, find your rocket ship. Or better yet, find many.

Break the time barrier by choosing who you travel with.
Physical proximity is irrelevant. The people you surround yourself with—intellectually, emotionally, energetically—will either anchor you or accelerate you.

My personal velocity?
It’s rising exponentially. Every single day.
Because every single day, I learn something new that saves me hours, days, even years.

It’s like driving with GPS versus wandering around, walking in circles, spending your entire day lost—while rocket ships fly overhead, available to all.

And here’s a wild thought:
Even science has proven it’s possible to bend time.
If you travel fast enough—like in a spaceship—relativity kicks in.
Spend 10 years traveling near the speed of light… and when you return, you haven’t aged
But Earth has. Your friends have. Your children have.

Let that sink in.

It’s not just science fiction. It’s physics.
And it’s a metaphor for what’s possible right here, right now.

You can either walk through life on foot—or board your rocket and break the time barrier.

P.S. Thank you, Marjah. These past two weeks of being your accountability partner have been some of the most productive, joy-filled, and inspired of my life. I can’t wait to join your mastermind group. This isn’t a paid plug. It’s just where I’m at. And I share because if one person finds their way to a rocket ship through this post—my mission to help others live a more beautiful, healthy, happy life is already fulfilled.

That’s why I write.

ROI for Your Life?

Everyone has heard of ROI, or return on investment. But what is the ROI for the biggest investment of your life? What is that, you ask? It’s your life itself.

I love learning. In fact, I am part of four groups and have three coaches. Seriously? Yes. Granted, some are once a month. But just like we clear the clutter in our house, what’s more important than the ROI on your money is the ROI on your time. Your time is literally the currency of your life.

Evaluating Your Time Investment

I am constantly rearranging various things, spending more time here than there. It’s essential to periodically review how we spend our time and assess the returns we are getting. Are you spending three hours a week on political discussions? If so, that might be a clear waste of your life—unless, of course, that is your profession.

You get to decide where to spend the currency of your life and what return you are getting. This definitely requires occasional review, just like we do with our friends.

Leveraging AI for Astonishing ROI

PS: AI is insane. What I learn every few seconds on an AI call can save me weeks of work. That is something that will have an astonishing ROI for you. I didn’t even count my AI group when I said I am part of three groups. The point is, what is your ROI for YOUR LIFE?

Quality Time with Loved Ones

Just yesterday, I walked around NYC with my dearest friend for two hours while he was doing errands. I hadn’t spent time with him in years. I can’t think of anything better I could have done with my time, which is literally my life.

Reflect and Adjust

What are you doing? Reflect on how you’re spending your time. Are your activities bringing you joy, growth, and fulfillment? Or are they draining your energy and offering little in return?

Reevaluate and adjust your commitments and activities to ensure you’re getting the best ROI for your life. Spend time on what truly matters to you, be it personal development, relationships, or exploring new interests.


Take a moment to assess your life’s ROI. Make conscious choices about how you spend your time, and prioritize activities that bring you the highest return in terms of happiness, growth, and fulfillment. Your time is precious—spend it wisely.