Shit for Brains: The Most Common Path to Success

Yes, original thinking leads to amazing things like the lightbulb, Tesla, and other great inventions. But you might argue that even Apple started as a mismatch of the Sony Walkman and Blackberry. The more common route to success I’ve witnessed requires suspending all critical thinking and blindly following a formula. It’s not glamorous, but it works. Let’s dive into why “shit for brains” might just be the most reliable path to success.

The Common Path: Shit for Brains

Franchises: The Recipe for Wealth

Take franchises, for example. They’re a goldmine if you follow the rules. McDonald’s even has a university to ensure franchisees do everything by the book. Divergent thinking? Not allowed. Stick to the formula, and you’re set for life.

Multilevel Marketing (MLM) Companies

Then there’s Amway and other MLMs. People have made untold fortunes by following the company’s script without applying any of their own critical thinking. Just do what they tell you, and you could end up wealthy.

Real Estate and Courses

Consider your friend who took a course on flipping houses or accumulating real estate. They didn’t think; they just followed the steps. If their timing was right, and they hit a boom period in real estate, they’re probably sitting on millions now.

Anecdotal Evidence: The Mainframe Distributor

I’ll never forget my childhood friend who got a distributorship for large mainframe computers in the seventies. He didn’t dot every I or cross every T, and some of his computers ended up in Russia. He had to clear up his troubles in DC later, but he’s obscenely rich now. Not thinking and just plowing ahead worked out for him.

The Middle Path: Challenges and Realities

Most of us fall somewhere in the middle, balancing between blind conformity and radical originality. This middle path is tricky. It requires you to follow some guidelines while thinking outside the box just enough to make improvements or find unique solutions.

The Road Not Travelled: The Thrill of Divergence

Then there’s the road not travelled, filled with excitement and unknowns. For some of us, like me, this path is where we find our joy. It’s not always the way to immense wealth, but it’s rich with personal fulfillment and adventure.

Embracing Originality

Those of us who love the road not travelled have what I call a mismatching brain. We crave exploration and innovation, even if others don’t always understand us. It’s a lonelier path, but incredibly rewarding when our ideas catch on.

Personal Happiness: The Traditional Route

I’m sure some of you have friends who followed the traditional marriage route. They married through arranged marriages or chose partners within their community, religion, or culture. Many of them went on to have extremely happy, successful lives surrounded by like-minded people. This route, too, can lead to personal happiness and fulfillment, reinforcing the idea that following a well-known path without questioning can lead to a happy and successful life.

Conclusion: Two Paths to Success

In summary, both paths—the shit for brains route and the road not travelled—are valid routes to success. The former is reliable and often leads to wealth and happiness by following proven formulas. The latter is for those who seek excitement and fulfillment through originality.

For those of us who thrive on the unconventional, the road not travelled offers a richness of experience that conventional paths lack. It may not always lead to immense wealth, but it brings joy and discovery.

A Proposal for Reflection

So here’s my proposal: either follow the well-known path without question or embrace original thinking to become a one-in-a-billion innovator. Reflect on where you stand and choose the journey that fits your personality and aspirations. For me, the road not travelled is where I find my excitement and joy, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.


Next time, let’s delve deeper into the joy and challenges of the road not travelled. For those of us who love adventure and the unknown, it’s a journey worth every step.

Life is the Opposite of Puzzles

This will bring you more peace, happiness, and hope for the future than anything.

Remember those puzzles we used to do as children? The joy of carefully placing each piece, knowing that eventually, a complete and beautiful picture would emerge. Life, however, doesn’t come with such clear edges or a defined image on the box. It’s a journey full of surprises, where the final picture remains a mystery.

Embrace the Uncertainty

Unlike a puzzle where every piece has a predetermined place, life invites us to embrace the unknown. Each moment, each experience, adds to the mosaic of our existence, often in ways we can’t foresee. This unpredictability can be daunting, but it also holds the promise of endless possibilities.

Finding Peace in the Present

To navigate this journey with peace, it’s essential to find contentment in the present. Focus on the pieces you have right now, and appreciate how they fit together. Even if the bigger picture is unclear, the beauty lies in the process of discovery. Trust that each step forward, each decision made, contributes to the unfolding masterpiece of your life.

Cultivating Happiness

Happiness comes from cherishing the present and finding joy in the little things. The path through life, much like the one through a lush forest, is filled with moments of beauty if we take the time to notice. Spend time with loved ones, pursue passions, and allow yourself to dream without the constraints of knowing exactly where those dreams will lead.

Hope for the Future

Hope springs from the understanding that life’s unpredictability is not something to fear but something to embrace. Each twist and turn offers new opportunities and lessons. By letting go of the need to control every aspect and instead flowing with life’s rhythm, you open yourself up to a future filled with potential.

The Journey is the Reward

Life may not offer the certainty of a completed puzzle, but it provides something far more enriching – a journey of continuous growth, discovery, and connection. Embrace the mystery, find peace in the present, cultivate happiness, and maintain hope for the future. This approach will bring you a deeper sense of fulfillment and joy than any completed puzzle ever could.

PS * credit to Fernando Valencia who first brought the analogy of the puzzle concept to me and to ChatGPT for fleshing it out and writing it better than I could. And credit to ME for recognizing how powerful and useful the concept is FOR EVERYONE who might not be exactly where they want to be right now ( like everyone) and for prompting Chatgpt correctly and realizing it is worth sharing. Here was my prompt “blog post please write and make photo. this will bring you more peace happiness and hope for the future than anything. Life is the opposite of puzzles we used to do,, you dont know what the final picture is going to be. also make photo’

I am going to also make a ten best rules for life according to my 70 years many thousands of books countless seminars thousands of cassettes