I was just answering a question on Quora. A girl said her boyfriend checks out other girls in front of her and says he wants to get with them.

Anyone that disrespectful rude or perhaps desiring to manipulate is the kind of person she should have dumped yesterday.

Think about what goes on in his small mind, how mean and rude. You cant fix that. No amount of counseling can fix someone who is that uncaring with zero empathy.

I would argue you can fix stupid with knowledge. You cant fix rude, uncaring mean aholes. I would extend this to other behaviors that really exemplify how someone thinks.

Think of the people you know that go out of their way to be kind to strangers, and people who are basically working in tasks that dont require kindness.

There are those that treat the garage attendant, the doorman and any worker like their best friend.

There are others that are so insecure they get off on treating those people in a mean manner. I dont have any clue how people are in a relationship with mean small minded people.

Men or women. It is such a window into their soul, their heart and how their brain thinks. Let me make it a little easier. Would you be with a guy who kicks your cat?

Same thing here. If he or she is willing to kick the cat or dog, (or the person in a service industry) Dont expect him or her to be nice to you, ever.

PS Wrong photo? Anyone can be rude. and rude unfortunately shows up in so many ways today.